外贸社区
婆婆在新婚之夜逼着我和三个男人“睡”，该拒绝吗?
婆婆在新婚之夜逼着我和三个男人“睡”，该拒绝吗？
The mother-in-law forced me to sleep me with three men on the night of newly marriage, should I say “no”?
以下是一个网友的叙述：新婚之夜，夜已深了，告辞了姑们姨们舅们，走出公婆的屋子，婆婆突然从后面叫住：“今儿晚上有压床的吗？瞧这大喜日子连一个打诨的小子也没来，压床的也不来一个。你哥你弟结婚时闹洞房的小子们撞破头，压床压了3个晚上，每晚上都有三、四个，现在可好……”
The following is the statement of one net-pal. It was the deep night of marriage. After saying goodbye to uncles and aunts, stepping out of the parents-in-law’s room, I was stooped by the mother-in-law, “Is there anyone pressing the bed tonight? Why there was not a single guy on such a delightful occasion. They knocked their heads to tease the bride during the wedding ceremony of the elder brothers and younger brothers; they pressed for three nights with three or four guys each night, but now…”
“什么压床？……”
老公赶紧拉我：“压床就是找几个小伙子和新娘睡……”
“什么？！你……”
“别紧张，我也睡在床上。只是……什么也……干不成……”
“那俩小子会不会……”
“敢吗？半真半假开几句玩笑，然后叠两个被窝，井水不犯河水。”
“咱俩睡一个被窝？”
“不，我自己一个，你们三个一个。”
“Pressing bed?”
My husband dragged me, “pressing bed refers to asking bride to sleep with several guys…”
“What?! You…”
“Don’t be nervous, I am also on the bed. But…I can do nothing…”
“What about the other guys…”
“How dare? They just play jokes, and then fold two bedclothes without intervening each other.”
“We two sleep under one bedclothes?”
“No, I myself, and you three.”
老公的胞弟和表弟充当了不合时宜的角色。但人家那神气分明是看老公的面子才来压床的，老公哈着腰得讨人家好，得感谢人家和他的新娘子钻一个被窝！如果你是新娘，你会拒绝这种无理的要求的吗？如果你是新郎，你会甘心接受风俗的捉弄吗？
My husband’s cousins played the inappropriate roles. But they seemed to press the bed regarding my husband’s reputation. He had to bow to flatter them and express gratitude for sleeping under the same bedclothes with his bride. If you were the bride, will you refuse the unreasonable requirement? If you were bridegroom, will you accept this custom willingly?
The mother-in-law forced me to sleep me with three men on the night of newly marriage, should I say “no”?
以下是一个网友的叙述：新婚之夜，夜已深了，告辞了姑们姨们舅们，走出公婆的屋子，婆婆突然从后面叫住：“今儿晚上有压床的吗？瞧这大喜日子连一个打诨的小子也没来，压床的也不来一个。你哥你弟结婚时闹洞房的小子们撞破头，压床压了3个晚上，每晚上都有三、四个，现在可好……”
The following is the statement of one net-pal. It was the deep night of marriage. After saying goodbye to uncles and aunts, stepping out of the parents-in-law’s room, I was stooped by the mother-in-law, “Is there anyone pressing the bed tonight? Why there was not a single guy on such a delightful occasion. They knocked their heads to tease the bride during the wedding ceremony of the elder brothers and younger brothers; they pressed for three nights with three or four guys each night, but now…”
“什么压床？……”
老公赶紧拉我：“压床就是找几个小伙子和新娘睡……”
“什么？！你……”
“别紧张，我也睡在床上。只是……什么也……干不成……”
“那俩小子会不会……”
“敢吗？半真半假开几句玩笑，然后叠两个被窝，井水不犯河水。”
“咱俩睡一个被窝？”
“不，我自己一个，你们三个一个。”
“Pressing bed?”
My husband dragged me, “pressing bed refers to asking bride to sleep with several guys…”
“What?! You…”
“Don’t be nervous, I am also on the bed. But…I can do nothing…”
“What about the other guys…”
“How dare? They just play jokes, and then fold two bedclothes without intervening each other.”
“We two sleep under one bedclothes?”
“No, I myself, and you three.”
老公的胞弟和表弟充当了不合时宜的角色。但人家那神气分明是看老公的面子才来压床的，老公哈着腰得讨人家好，得感谢人家和他的新娘子钻一个被窝！如果你是新娘，你会拒绝这种无理的要求的吗？如果你是新郎，你会甘心接受风俗的捉弄吗？
My husband’s cousins played the inappropriate roles. But they seemed to press the bed regarding my husband’s reputation. He had to bow to flatter them and express gratitude for sleeping under the same bedclothes with his bride. If you were the bride, will you refuse the unreasonable requirement? If you were bridegroom, will you accept this custom willingly?
文晴
拒绝!
2009-10-29 09:19:55
wangvivian
当然拒绝
2009-10-29 09:13:52
姬彦彦
这是哪里的风俗啊？这么奇怪
2009-10-29 09:09:15
yangjhinkkoo
haha. funny
2009-10-29 08:30:17
刘祥
不会吧。。。。。。。。
2009-10-28 23:49:51
蔡玉海
本当に？怖いです
2009-10-28 22:58:05
钟红
无聊不无聊 在这个上面贴这样的东东
2009-10-28 22:20:42
candy
呵呵，闻所未闻
2009-10-28 21:54:53
刘兰
没听说过，太无聊了。
2009-10-28 18:05:12
谷宝玲
我们那也有压床那一说,但是不是楼主说的这样的.
2009-10-28 17:55:53
颜丽辉
无语
这个风俗
真是可怕
2009-10-28 17:51:08
籍涛
NO，哪儿的内俗，也太恐怖了吧
2009-10-28 17:32:32
写评论
发短文 
写文章 
提问题 
